Your first message can be simple
Tell me your city, an approximate date and the sort of evening you imagine: a quiet table, a dressed-up occasion or dinner followed by a walk. You do not need to explain why you want company. We can start with a hello and get to know each other.
I would like to find out whether conversation feels easy between us. A call can help us choose the right pace. Asking how I work and telling me what makes you comfortable are welcome parts of that first conversation.
At the table, we can be ourselves
We could meet at a public place you know, take a moment to say hello and sit down together. The pleasure might be a conversation that moves from food to memories, an unexpected laugh or a comfortable pause. I cannot promise perfect chemistry; I can bring my attention and curiosity.
You may choose the restaurant yourself. If you only know the neighbourhood or atmosphere you would like, we can look for a suitable place and check availability. We agree beforehand whether the evening ends after dinner or includes time elsewhere.
Agree the practical details before booking
We discuss the date, meeting place, duration, fee and possible expenses. The restaurant bill, travel from my base in Spain and any accommodation are separate questions to settle beforehand, never surprises at the end.
I am not permanently in every European city. I can consider travelling to you, but availability depends on dates and the journey. If the plan changes, we discuss additional time or activities before making a new agreement.
Begin with a hello
You could write: “Hello Cristiano, I would enjoy dinner with company in [city] around [date]. Could we get to know each other and talk about the evening?” That is enough to start. I will listen to your idea and we can see whether we would like to share that time.
A message is not a booking. Conversation comes first; terms, duration and expenses are clear before anything is confirmed.
Would you enjoy dinner together? Tell me what you have in mind.