For dinner: start with the plan
“Hello Cristiano, I would enjoy meeting you for dinner in [city], around [date]. I prefer somewhere quiet where we can talk. Could we discuss availability and the details?”.
You can add an approximate duration or the area that suits you. A neighbourhood is enough to begin; you do not need to share your home address. Mention it if your dates are flexible.
For a boyfriend for an evening: describe the occasion
“Hello Cristiano, I’m looking for a boyfriend for an evening in [city]. I have [a party / an outing / dinner for two] in mind. I would like to get to know you first and see how we get along. Could we talk?”.
If other people will be there, you can mention the setting. Introductions, clothing and photographs can be discussed later; you do not have to share your whole life story in a first message.
If you are curious but have not decided
“Hello Cristiano, I have read your introduction and I’m curious about your proposal. I do not have a date or a definite plan yet. I would enjoy getting to know you: could we exchange a few messages?”.
You can tell me you prefer to begin in writing. A call can be arranged if you would like one. There is no need to apologise for being curious or have a complete request ready before starting a conversation.
Where to send it and what happens next
You will find WhatsApp and the form in the contact section of this website. If you use the form, include a contact where you would like to receive a reply; required fields are marked. You do not need to send the same message through both channels.
I do not publish a guaranteed response time. Writing does not confirm a booking: we first talk and check availability and whether we get along, then agree on the plans, fee and expenses before confirming.